Coffee

Conversation

Perspective

A space to talk about life, faith, relationships, stress, or whatever is on your mind.

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Three people are clinking cups of coffee with latte art in a cafe.
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For many years in my role as a church pastor, I have had the privilege of walking alongside people through seasons of joy, loss, uncertainty, burnout, relationship struggles, and questions about life and faith.

Most of those conversations naturally happened within the life of the church. But over time, I began to realise that many people outside the church are carrying the very same questions and burdens — often without a safe place to talk about them.

That’s why I created Coffee with a Pastor — informal, confidential conversations open to anyone, whether you have a faith background or not.

No pressure. No preaching. Just conversations over coffee.

Hi, I’m Wayne

What We Can Talk About

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Stress and Feeling Overwhelmed

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Relationships and Marriage

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Parenting

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Grief and Loss

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Faith and Spirituality

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Life Transitions

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Purpose and Direction

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Or simply: “I need someone to talk to…”

How it Works

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Step1: Book

Choose a time that suits you using the booking link. (It’s free!)

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Step 2: Meet

We meet for 60 minutes in a café or similar space.

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Step 3: Talk

A space for honest conversation. I listen and walk with you.

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Step 4: The Next Step

Allow time to reflect and process our conversation while discerning your possible next step.

Frequently Asked Questions

  • No, not at all. This is open to anyone wether you are religious or not.

  • No, these are informal pastoral conversations.

  • Yes, within normal safety and legal limits.

  • This is absolutely free. You are welcome to get the coffee if you insist!